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#1 :: February 4th, 2011 @ 10:17 PM

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Okay, so, there's this guy I kinda like, but sometimes he annoys the hell out of me. Like, I'm just talking to him or something and then he totally ditches me for his guy friends and it's really annoying! Also, he always has sports practice for basketball or soccer or baseball or something so I never get to talk to him. But, i can't not like him. It's just not possible. He's like the typical awesome person (baseball player, basketball player, awesome dark brown hair, deep brown eyes, super tall). And also... He's a year younger than me and at my school it's like totally frowned upon to go out with someone younger than you and--I don't know. I just need to vent.

I feel much better now.

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#2 :: February 5th, 2011 @ 1:08 AM

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Okay..here's my advice.
1. Is he actually ditching you? Did you have plans and he decided to hang out with his friends instead? If this is not the case, then that's okay! Don't be clingy. Let him have his man time. It may seem like it's a good idea to spend all of your time together now, but in the end, it never pays off. I did this and I ended up losing all of my friends and me and my soon to be ex are annoyed with each other because we live together and we see too much of each other. Absence makes the heart grow fonder!
2. Every one has passions in life and his are his sports. Don't get angry at him for doing what he loves. He doesn't need to be with you all the time.
3. Screw what every one else thinks! I lived my whole highschool life worried about what other people would think if i did this or that or what people would say if i dated certain people. Let me just tell you now, that stuff isn't important. Do what your heart is telling you to do and if other people don't like it then those aren't the people who you want to be friends with. Real friends support your decisions and they will be there for you if it doesn't work out.

Go for it! Just remember to give each other space.
Not trying to be mean. I just don't want you to make the same mistakes I did.
Good luck (:

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#3 :: February 5th, 2011 @ 2:24 AM

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I'd like to agree with the advice Nine says which is: Is he actually ditching you? "Did you have plans and he decided to hang out with his friends instead?" If neither of you made plans, then he has all the right to just talk to his friends - you like him, but does he like you in any other way? o3o

No offense but it sounds like you like him for the looks, have you looked into his personality and all that junk? xD

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