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Sexual Preferences?
| #121 :: September 19th, 2011 @ 5:39 AM | |
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But that's more of a mild annoyance than full blown trouble and bad experience made by for example gay couples who even get beat up because they dared to show their affection to each other in public.
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| #122 :: September 19th, 2011 @ 6:50 PM | |
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--- I'm gay. I love the ladies. I don't recall getting many things for it [yet] but I am completely closeted to my family.
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| #123 :: September 19th, 2011 @ 7:00 PM | |
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Never had any bad experiences with it (being straight), except for friends playfully calling me a 'breeder'. xD I don't think that counts, though. |
| #124 :: September 24th, 2011 @ 2:46 PM | |
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i'd like to hope that most, if not all, of the people saying they're bi are actually bi & not just in it for the "trend" as i know that still happens and it can be very hurtfull if you're not being truthfull. i myself am bi and i'm with a girl who's gay. i've had no trouble from my family, they all accepted it even though my mum was still surprised when i was actually with a girl. i only ever cared what my brother thought of me though. i'd been beaten up when i was 12 by six 17 year olds due to being bi and willingly coming out straight away in secondary school, due to already coming out when i was 8 in primary. it's sick to know that people aren't born homophobic, they get taught to be that way. anything about the bible tells you this, it tells you that, it also tells you that every animal ever created can fit on a boat, along with many impossible notions. if you can tell, i'm not religious, i've never been christened and i have no interest in ever being religious. that doesn't mean i'm ignorant though. i've only read through the first page of this and i'm glad to see no one has had issues with coming out, no one should ever be worried about it. if you ever feel like you are, you need to get rid of the people in your life that are making you feel that way. essay over xD bi and happy ^__^
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| #125 :: September 27th, 2011 @ 3:11 AM | |
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100% lesbian! I absolutely love women  & I'm pretty sure I've been gay my whole life. it just took me 16 years to finally see that. sure I've had a few boyfriends in the past but that was only because I was raised in a homophobic-Christian family  I enjoyed hanging out with my boyfriends, but when it came to getting intimate, I would feel absolutely disgusted. I didnt want them touching me or thinking of me in any sexual way. but that first time I saw a girl on girl scene (thank you, Degrassi) I was completely turned on. & then it got me thinking... all those years finally made sense now. so then I came out of the closet and didnt give a crap what everyone else thought! the end.
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| #126 :: October 2nd, 2011 @ 10:09 PM | |
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There's no. Nothing left for me. When all beauty's destroyed. Boobs and vag are gross, even though I have them. I don't even like hanging out with girls. There's no. Nothing left to see. Once all beauty's destroyed.
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| #127 :: October 10th, 2011 @ 4:23 AM | |
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I am bi and atheist, Ive only dated guys because well there arent many bi or gay girls around here, and the few that are are really stuck up.
Ive never really let it get in my way though. "And we'll dance beneath mistletoe kissing till out hearts content..." |
| #128 :: October 12th, 2011 @ 11:56 AM | |
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 I feel like the odd man out. I'm panromantic asexual. Basically I'm attracted to personality above all. I've been in relationships with guys and girls and have zero interest in doing anything sexually, but can become deeply attracted on a romantic level. I'm also a deist - a very scientific one which likely falls closer to atheist than anything else. And I've received flack for both of these things. Mostly it's just people telling me I haven't 'met the right person yet' or that I'm 'too young to know yet' (I'm 21, I feel like I'm well aware of my own orientation at this point and time). Either way, people constantly trying to bargin with me and tell me that I'll change my mind gets old fast and while I wouldn't consider it any type of discrimination, it's damn annoying.
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| #129 :: October 12th, 2011 @ 2:18 PM | |
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| #130 :: October 13th, 2011 @ 1:10 AM | |
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I don't really pay attention to someone's sex or gender identity, tbh. Personally, if I find a wonderful person that was female, so be it. Vice versa. Recently, I haven't received crap about it but it seems being "bi-sexual" is the new thing for females in my school. It's all of a sudden a sort of trend. IDE. However, I use to get bullied for it often; the fact I didn't really care for gender. Especially during PE and such. Y'know how it goes.
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| #131 :: October 13th, 2011 @ 2:09 AM | |
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I'm bisexual and anti-religious, and I've only had one bad encounter, only... It really wasn't what they thought. I was walking down the street holding hands with my sister and some dudes in a truck threaten us. It was odd. I just can't see why or how that would effect anyone else if you loved somebody of the same sex as you would someone of the opposing sex. It really doesn't matter cause honestly if somebody told a heterosexual they couldn't love the opposing sex, that it was "wrong" then they sure as hell wouldn't be happy would they? People are people does it matter who they like/love/or are with? I think not. Then again this is coming from a anti-religious person therefore I have no regard for religion of any kind.
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| #132 :: October 13th, 2011 @ 1:04 PM | |
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 I go for personallity, before gender always. I don't seem to gain physical attraction to either gender until I get to know the person better.
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| #133 :: October 16th, 2011 @ 2:14 AM | |
| Shaeji Only has Room for One  286 Posts 207 Achievements |
 This is how I show my loveMaybe I'm not listeningI went years denying that I was bisexual in fear of my mother who is extermly judgmental even though she says she is open to anything and everything. I had feelings for my best friend, but ingored it saying she was just my sister. Then at a sleep over we were laying on her bed just starring at the ceiling talking about every day drama and other crap, then she rolled over on top of me and kissed me. It was then that I realized I couldn't deny it anymore. We started dating and I came out to my friends per say, they said finally, but my girlfriend/best friend refused to tell anyone about us or even tell people she was bi. It upset me. At school she would pull me into the shadows and kiss me if the hall mostly empty. Then over msn she broke up with me because it was to good and she was scared that it was going to lead into something serious. i was heart broken and refused to eat for a week or more. My dad got worried can ask what was wrong so I told him. Once I got over it, two months later she asked me out again. I said yes, but she acted like nothing changed or anything. Then I saw her kissing some guy. So I asked her about that and she said yeah that my boyfriend. So then I asked her if she remembered that we were dating. She laughed and said non-sense we broke up three months ago. I was so angry at her and refused to talk to her. Needless to say after three years of her toying with me, I gave up. I dated others between our little flings. One of the relationships I feel in love with the guy, but he left me for a person of questionable reputation that later rejected him because he was single. My best friend told me she loves me completely and dearly, but I told her I want nothing to do with it anymore. I'm currently dating my amazing boyfriend whom I love very much. He doesn't care that I'm bi and have dated well as done things with girls. He is really open minded about everything. He is my rock per say. I'm attracted to both genders, but doesn't mean I'll jump every bag of bones I see. I have high standards and very few people met them. Long as two people are in love, are happy, and are true themselves, they can love who ever they please long as they don't force me or anyone else around them to be like them. of course it has to be legal. lolSo blame it on my A.D.D baby
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| #134 :: October 18th, 2011 @ 3:04 PM | |
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for me gender doesn't really matter, i'm what someone would call pansexual,
i can get attracted to any kind of gender identity i kinda got the luck to have a family accepting it, even though they sometimes get a bit wrong how stuff works [my mother for example thinks that being gay can be taught, so if my little brother does too many girlish stuff that he might become gay, and she won't face the fact that its entirely up to genetics lol] but aside from this she doesn't have any problems with bi, gay or whatever people, gladly i think everyone should be able to love who they want, as long as they're old enough nature made it that way and everyone who bashes people because of this is too stupid to even think of biological stuff when even animals can be gay though the silliest i've ever heard was something like "humanity will become extinct if there are to be even more gays" it was so stupid that it was almost funny again my way of thinking is rather the other way around, the world is overpopulated already anyways
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| #135 :: November 9th, 2011 @ 11:06 PM | |
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I'm going to hell. All the people I love will be there.
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| #136 :: November 15th, 2011 @ 3:17 PM | |
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I'm an aromantic polysexual. Gender matters to me, I'm not attracted to all genders or all gender presentation but definitely more than just male/female dichotomy. I get more crap for being aromantic than for being polysexual, though I do get similar crap bisexual/pansexual people get. People are quick to tell me that being aromantic is a disorder, that it makes me 'evil', that it doesn't exist, it's just a phase, that I'm not really aromantic I'm just 'bitter' or 'damaged', or that it's really tragic that I'm not capable of 'loving' or 'being close to' people. BUT, those people don't actually know what being aromantic is, so I try not to let it get to me.
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| #137 :: November 23rd, 2011 @ 12:43 PM | |
| Fluorosaur Member  36 Posts 2 Achievements |
I'm bisexual. I haven't really gotten any crap about it, aside from some people thinking I'm just saying it for attention. One of my close guy friends thought it was a total lie. But then he happened to witness me hooking up with and going home with two very attractive girls one night, and now no one doubts me. I guess a public threesome was all it took. Last Edit by:
Fluorosaur 11/23/11 - 12:43:50 pm
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| #138 :: November 23rd, 2011 @ 1:16 PM | |
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Could've sworn I posted here, but apparently I haven't. I'm a panromantic asexual. I really don't see people as guys and girls, I just see everyone as people. I'm also agendered, so that might have something to do with it. I haven't properly told anyone yet, although my best friend and I were talking once and we both admitted that gender didn't really matter to us in relationships. I really have no idea how I'm ever going to find anyone being the oddball I am. :'D I'm just waiting for someone who cares about what's inside my head, not about my body. <3 Last Edit by: User not found (1): Mechanic 11/23/11 - 1:17:30 pm
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| #139 :: December 3rd, 2011 @ 7:44 PM | |
| Musiqa Donated to the Cash Shop 283 Posts 165 Achievements |
I agree hardcore with Nymfetamin
"And we'll dance beneath mistletoe kissing till out hearts content..." |
| #140 :: December 3rd, 2011 @ 8:02 PM | |
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 Though I am quite apathetic when it comes down to romance and the sorts.
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| #141 :: December 6th, 2011 @ 2:21 AM | |
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  Hello, hello. Anybody out there?... _______________________________________ I'm probably the straightest you'll ever find (according to a couple of my friends) and I guess the closest I've come to having an issue with that is when a random person comes up to me and calls me a "gay basher" or just someone who hates gays in general. I am however, highly offended by that because many of my most favourite friendS and close relatives are transexuals, bis, gays, lesbians etc. For the love of Gosh, I'm Thai and I've been in my home country where we're known for all sorts of weird stuff. I love them to death despite their sexuality - to which I couldn't give a rat's ass about - since they're still the people I love and care about. _______________________________________ ...Cause I don't hear a sound.  
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| #142 :: December 8th, 2011 @ 1:33 PM | |
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I'm attracted to girls. But that's not to say that I am comfortable with being considered a lesbian.. I guess I've only just delved into the matters of my gender identity. It's kind of exciting to explore, but a million times more frustrating, as being unsure isn't solid enough for my liking. As far as guys go for me.. I get along with them way better than girls, but in a brotherly way. I can admit/acknowledge a guy is hot or good looking, but I just have no desire to be with or sleep with a guy.
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| #143 :: December 8th, 2011 @ 4:08 PM | |
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 im straight, no shockers there but out of the five of my friends two of them are gay. kyle, we've known since he was about 7, and when he came out at the age of 15 or so we just kind of looked at him like "knew you'd get there in the end" hahaha. love him to death like ♥ and as for sammy, she's only come out recently. over the last couple of years she was very... promiscuous haha, she slept with dozens of boys, which is very concerning but then, BAM! im gay. (: she's got a girlfriend now, her first relationship ever and ive never seen her happier. ♥ gotta love 'em gays! =D ♥ Last Edit by: User not found (1): lovely.BONES 12/08/11 - 4:08:30 pm
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| #144 :: December 9th, 2011 @ 5:10 PM | |
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I'm sure everyone has had their share bad experiences in that field.  Whether it's rejection or worse.  At the moment I have a boyfriend who I love so much. 
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| #145 :: December 9th, 2011 @ 5:35 PM | |
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i'm asexual, as in the absence of sex, not budding. i don't like anything to do with sex bc it disgusts me. it doesn't mean i don't like people, i just don't have any interest in sex. i wear a promise ring and make it very known i am a celibate. i call myself a nun as a joke but i legitimately wish i were a nun. it has a little bit to do with the fact that i've been told many times that the way i act is very promiscuous and flirty to everyone??? also i've had a lot of guys interested in me and guys my age are typically very hormonal and i'm wary bc i don't want to lead anyone on.     tumblr | twitter
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| #146 :: December 9th, 2011 @ 5:38 PM | |
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I'd call myself open. I've found myself very attracted to people of both genders, I just haven't met a girl who felt the same way yet. Same here.
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| #147 :: December 9th, 2011 @ 7:26 PM | |
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But I am very attracted to guys also, I've always had boyfriends and been with them sexually and I love their personalities. Until they turn into a willyhead. Edit: Also, in England, lesbians or bisexuals aren't really shown on the radar, nor are they really tolerated. Boys won't be interested, and girls freak out. I want to try things with a girl, but I can't find one who would ever be with me. Moreover, if a lesbian or bisexual could help me ...define me, it would be must appreciated o-o Last Edit by:
Ames 12/09/11 - 7:34:07 pm
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| #148 :: December 14th, 2011 @ 11:48 PM | |
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       I'm bisexual/pansexual/whatever the hell, I'm not even really sure what to call it anymore. I'm physically attracted to both, but my emotional attraction is definitely what pulls me in. I can see someone and think "(S)he is fine as hell." but I don't start having FEELINGS for the person until I get to know them. I've had a bunch of boyfriends and one girlfriend, but most of my relationships flopped. Well, all of them did technically, but some were just pointless while others (especially my most recent) felt incredible and would've worked out better if it wasn't for commitment issues and whatnot. ANYWAY. I've been harassed for it before, by a friend's family members, actually. The ignorance of some people appalls me to no end. Other than that, a few people in middle school thought my best friend and I were lesbian because of how close we were, lol. I'm not religious. I have my beliefs, and I have no problem with religion or its followers so long as it does not affect others in a negative manner, including sexuality. As long as they're happy together, who says who they can or can't love? I'm sorry, but no god who says it's a sin to love someone of the same gender will have a special place in my heart.
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| #149 :: December 29th, 2011 @ 4:06 PM | |
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 I'm a girl and I can only picture myself with a guy... marriage, sex, raising a family.. So yeah I'm straight. being straight it so hard you guys you like don't even know! (I'm joking I hope you all know that) back on a serious note~ I'm also a Christian and I believe that it's God's decision on whether or not gay people go to hell or whatever.. I don't have the right to tell someone that... gay people are still people they're not animals and I don't know why some Christians treat them like such dirt. But yeah they can do whatever they want, but it gets me mad when they treat it like a freaking religion "We should be teaching about being homosexual in our elementary schools!" .. wait what? NO! That's not how it work.. teach that you shouldn't pick on people .. yes.. spread the word, ie how to have gay sex and stuff.... no .. just no. THAT'S IT THAT'S ALL I GOT!
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| #150 :: December 30th, 2011 @ 12:55 AM | |
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I am asexual.
My asexuality has caused me some problems, most people that I talk to try to figure out why I am asexual. They don't seem to understand why I have no interest in sex. They can't possibly wrap their own minds around this concept, which has led to numerous frustration on my part. As a result of these frustrating conversations that I had, I would go further and classify myself as aromatic, which effectively solves the entire prospect of relationships. I no longer have to worry about that, as I would have no dealings. On the opposite side of the coin, my family has no problem with my asexuality, in fact I think it provides them with some form of relief as they don't have to worry about me ever being in a bad relationship, as I will never be in a relationship. I am not speaking ill of relationships in general, more I am speaking about my families own personal experience with bad relationships and their fear that I would make the same mistakes that they did.
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| #151 :: December 30th, 2011 @ 1:11 AM | |
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I'm....bi-curious (I guess?). I've had some very minor sexual contact with a woman, but I've never really done anything too crazy. I think I could though, but for the moment I'm not going to officially come out and say I'm bisexual. My family is die hard Catholics, and I can promise you that they wouldn't approve. I wouldn't ever let that stop me from coming out though- if they can't love me for who I really am, I'll find a "family" that will. I find it so sad how religion can come before your own relationships with family members.
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| #152 :: December 30th, 2011 @ 10:27 AM | |
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Im attracted to guys emotionally but not really physically.
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| #153 :: December 30th, 2011 @ 12:24 PM | |
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I am straight. And I am not religious.
But I seem to be out of luck, because I cannot seem to get a crush on a guy who will actually like me back :/ I have had friends that have asked me if I might be gay, I have thought about it, and I am emotional and physically attracted to guys. Even though I either like more manly guys, or more famine guys, not the ones in the middle. "You let your fear of magic turn to hate, I pity you" Druid-Merlin |
| #154 :: January 1st, 2012 @ 1:51 AM | |
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--- I'm a lesbian & religious. I hate that I'm judged because all of these people think I don't have a religion just because I'm gay.
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| #155 :: January 1st, 2012 @ 6:13 AM | |
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I'm bi. No one ever takes me seriously when I tell them. They think I'm trying to be cool. What a bummer.
I'm currently dating a very nice girl. <3 I'm sad that she's moving away at the end of the school semester.  
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| #156 :: January 4th, 2012 @ 2:44 PM | |
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so I date girls. I'm actually pretty surprised that I have been lucky to avoid all kinds of negative feedback about the thing. no one has bullied me, my parents know and are okay with it etc etc. the only thing that comes to mind is random people like mom's friends and my grandparents asking me about boyfriends and marriage and children -- this seriously pisses me off, but I usually just shrug it off and try to talk about other things. 
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| #157 :: January 9th, 2012 @ 6:52 PM | |
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straight and christian, though i do find females very beautiful and attractive. i was pansexual for a couple years, but then just reverted to heterosexuality with homoerotic tendencies. i really can't see myself being in a long-term relationship with someone of the same gender [especially considering my views on reproduction]. i've gotten a lot of crap for my preferences in the past, from my father [though he was somewhat joking] and a couple hardcore christian friends. Last Edit by:
Divine 1/09/12 - 6:54:03 pm
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| #158 :: January 11th, 2012 @ 3:43 AM | |
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 I've been in relationships with both guys and girls mostly when i was in high school but ultimately i like guys better. I think women are attractive and my relationships with girls were wonderful but i could never see myself spending the rest of my life with a woman.
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| #159 :: January 11th, 2012 @ 4:23 AM | |
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Straight porn feels contrived and kinda gross. /shrug I just want a girlfriend. ;_;  Last Edit by: User not found (1): CAMARO 1/11/12 - 4:34:21 am
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| #160 :: January 11th, 2012 @ 8:34 AM | |
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@Ames Last Edit by: User not found (1): antipathy 1/11/12 - 8:34:43 am
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